Day 23. What can you do for yourself when you are having a bad day or struggling which will help you?
- not push myself to do the most challenging things
- do comforting things, not compel myself to keep achieving i.e. give myself a break
- ask for comfort / support
- talk to someone
- encourage myself and realise that the days it feels most difficult are the days it’s MOST important to stay positive about myself
- go to bed if it’s too painful to be awake
- remember I am not well and stop expecting myself to behave as if I am. I don’t want to have invalid mentality, but I tend to go to the opposite extreme and expect myself to carry on as if I was fit and healthy and I’m not. The more I give in, the quicker I will get better (I’m talking about my other physical problems here, not my ED)
- tell myself itfeels permanent, but it isn’t