I think you need to stop second-guessing me all the time.
Although, on the other hand…
You are all in so much pain and I care so much and it kills me that I can’t make it go away but i want you to know that i am here and i care and i am thinking of you and in that way at least, you are not alone
My self esteem would be just fine if only all the people would go away.
I can’t pretend I haen’t absorbed society’s ideals. I have. But I only judge myself harshly if i don’d conform. In everyone else, my idea of what is beautiful is a lot bigger than that narrow definition.
For others, beauty is something that grows as I get to know them. It bears no relation whatever to their physical appearance. It defines HOW I perceive their physical appearance, in fact.
I don’t think there really is an ugly person. The more you view people with compassion, the more beautiful people you find. Not saying I can do this. Just talking idealistically ;)
For some reason I’ve got a lot of nice comments on them. People tell me they are big and dark and striking and that I have nice eyelashes.
My eyes are the one part of my body I don’t actually hate. I would even go so far as to say - drumroll, please - I actually like my eyes!!
my sparkly cushion with copper-coloured sequins all over one side and prown velvet the other. Love my cushion. Can’t live without it. Take it everywhere. Without it, I can’t sit anywhere without a stonking back ache. <3
This is hard. It makes me feel conceited to answer this.
I laugh at crazy things and make people laugh. And I try not to make sure I don’t hurt anyone’s feelings with it.
I try hard to be considerate and gentle with people.
I don’t like to condemn people, no matter what they’ve done. I’d rather understand.
I get enthusiastic and excited over things when I feel safe to be myself.
OMG that was horrible.
Talked about a problem and asked for help instead of ‘fixing’ it in a more comfortable but less healthy way.